It’s not okay for me to make mistakes
This week, Gervase takes on a limiting belief that surfaces in the lives of many modern women: it’s not okay to be wrong. Learn why this belief leads to fear, power struggles and a lack of authenticity in your life. You’ll discover why ruminating and gaslighting are trauma-based activation responses, and how leaning into body wisdom and the practice of resourcing can give you exactly what you need - the permission to be human, which will power a sense of ease, flow and creativity in your life.
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What if that voice telling you to “be more productive” isn’t your inner wisdom but internalized capitalism? Most of us are living with constant pressure to optimize, monetize, and harvest every moment of our lives, and we don’t even realize it.
In this raw episode, Gervase shares a vulnerable moment from her own life that perfectly illustrates how capitalism has trained us to believe we don’t get to just exist. She breaks down how this system affects modern women and offers practical ways to reclaim your humanity.
This isn’t about becoming anti-capitalism overnight, it’s about recognizing the programming so you can make conscious choices about your own 500 square feet of life.
Listen to this episode to discover:
The moment Gervase realized she couldn’t even enjoy a peaceful lunch with her son without thinking about content creation
How internalized capitalism shows up in everyday life (spoiler: it’s that voice saying “you’re not doing enough”)
Why we’ve been programmed to turn every hobby, idea, and beautiful moment into a business opportunity
The “harvest mentality” and why it’s running you ragged
How capitalism affects both stay-at-home and working moms (and why both feel like they’re never enough)
Simple acts of rebellion: ways to reclaim moments that capitalism can’t touch
Why your worth isn’t determined by your output, and how to actually believe it
How to create conscious moments of rest and pleasure without guilt
The ripple effect of tending to your own “500 square feet” instead of trying to change the world
This episode is for you if:
You feel guilty taking breaks unless you’ve “earned” them
Every hobby feels like it should become a side hustle
You can’t enjoy peaceful moments without thinking about productivity
You're exhausted from the constant pressure to do more, be more, create more
You want practical ways to reclaim your humanity in a productivity-obsessed world
Resource mentioned in this episode:
Toi Marie (Smith): https://www.toimarie.com/
What if the reason you constantly feel drained isn’t because you’re doing too much, but because you’re doing things in a way that goes against your natural design? Most of us are running on empty, trying to force ourselves into systems and rhythms that work for other people—but not for us.
This week, I sat down with human design expert and best-selling author Erin Claire Jones to explore how understanding your unique energetic blueprint can transform how you work, love, and live.
Erin breaks down the practical magic of human design and shows us how to stop forcing and start flowing. She reveals why most of us have been conditioned to work against our natural energy patterns, how this creates burnout and disconnection, and the simple shifts that can help you honor your design. She shares practical insights for all 5 human design types and explains why this system is less mystical theory and more practical life manual.
Listen to this episode to discover:
What human design is and why it’s the most practical system for understanding your energy and intuition
The 5 human design types (Generators, Manifesting Generators, Projectors, Manifestors, and Reflectors) and how each is designed to move through the world
Why Generators and Manifesting Generators need to ask “Do I really feel excited about this?” before saying yes to everything
How Projectors can build successful businesses and raise families without burning out (spoiler: it’s about working with your energy, not against it)
Why Manifestors need freedom to do things their own way
Why energy management is more important than time management
How to use human design to understand your partner and kids on a deeper level
Let’s be real: the world doesn’t need another “put-together” woman who’s mastered pretending. It needs you—whole, honest, luminous, messy, intuitive, powerful-as-hell you.
That's why we're bringing back this special episode -- straight from the Vault!
G goes all in—sharing raw personal stories and client transformations to show you the sacred evidence of what’s possible when you stop hiding parts of yourself. Light and dark. Joy and rage. Fire and softness. All of it belongs.
This episode is your reminder (or wake-up call) that being fully expressed isn’t a luxury—it’s your lifeline. Especially if you’re navigating mental health shifts, heavy relational dynamics, or the never-ending mental load of modern womanhood.
Here’s what you’ll walk away with:
What it actually means to lead with your heart
How to feel more grounded in your truth—even when life feels like a lot
Why emotional range = personal power
A new definition of “strength” that lets you breathe easier
A soul check-in: Are you living the Woman Way… or still shape-shifting?
Hit play now. Let it land. Let it stir you. Then share it with the women who need it. And if it moves you? Come join the Phoenix Revolution. We’re not here to play small anymore.
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