oh what? you fell for the Disney version?
Hi friend!
I posted something on Instagram yesterday that made one woman immediately grab the Art of We masterclass replay:
“Marriage isn’t happily ever after. It’s a contract between two souls where you agree to trigger the shit out of each other until you feel and heal your childhood wounds.” 😅
She got it immediately. 👏
Here’s the truth we assume women can't handle: Your partner isn’t necessarily the problem. He’s the mirror.🪞
That thing he does that makes you want to scream? There is soul wisdom in how your body reacts to that.
That pattern where you end up doing everything yourself? That’s often not so much about your partner's laziness as is it about your need for control.😬
That fight you keep having? I bet you $100 it's not actually about the dishes.
It’s your soul curriculum showing up in real time.
So here’s the thing - you can keep fighting him, or you can start addressing what’s actually happening in YOU.
Yesterday, one of my 1:1 Voxer clients had this breakthrough where she caught herself mid-trigger and said:
“I think that’s the first time I’ve actually admitted what I’ve noticed about this pattern of mine out loud. It feels kind of gross to take responsibility for it.”
THIS. This is the realest thing you’ll read about what it’s actually like to do this work. 😂
It feels gross at first. Because we’d rather believe he’s the asshole. Righteousness feels way better than humility. (Hellooooo look at the current global stage. 😑)
But this is NOT about making yourself wrong and them right. 🙅♀️
This is about taking control back from the narrative that keeps you safe, but over-extended. Safe but in control of the story. Safe but secretly spiraling.
Guess what gets to happen when you stop fighting him and start addressing what’s actually happening in YOU? Peace. Joy. Connection. The relationship you actually want.
The Art of We Mastermind starts April 2nd.
This is the space where you unlearn the fairytale and get real about your patterns - with support, not shame.
6 weeks. 8 spots. Live coaching, Voxer access, and a container to actually practice this work in real time.
Not just understand it. Practice it.
JOIN THE ART OF WE MASTERMIND HERE
XOXO,
Gervase
P.S. - If you’re still on the fence about the masterclass replay, grab it here for $122. It’ll give you a taste of what we do in the mastermind - and honestly, if after watching it you’re like “I need more of this,” now you have your next step.